I offer this advice to all of the dudebros disturbed by Model View Media and other people and organizations like it: Follow the advice of your Successories poster and do something that scares you every day. Listen to someone who isn't a white man and, this is the tricky part, don't respond. Don't offer your judgment, don't correct, elaborate, or dismiss. Just listen. It's scary, but like anything, it gets easier with repetition. Go on Twitter and follow some new people. Just listen every day for a while -- a few weeks or months -- and resist the urge to explain and correct. Your life, and the lives of those around you, will be immeasurably enriched.